Casalieve

The Mental Load Test

Who's the one who notices these things need doing and makes sure they happen? Answer honestly — this isn't a test, and nobody sees your answers but you.

Car maintenance & inspection dates

Mostly me Shared evenly Mostly my partner Doesn't apply to us

Health & medical appointments for the family

Mostly me Shared evenly Mostly my partner Doesn't apply to us

School admin — forms, deadlines, permission slips

Mostly me Shared evenly Mostly my partner Doesn't apply to us

Insurance policies & renewal deadlines

Mostly me Shared evenly Mostly my partner Doesn't apply to us

Birthdays, gifts, and cards for family & friends

Mostly me Shared evenly Mostly my partner Doesn't apply to us

Home maintenance — boiler service, repairs, filters

Mostly me Shared evenly Mostly my partner Doesn't apply to us

Bills, subscriptions, and financial admin

Mostly me Shared evenly Mostly my partner Doesn't apply to us

Childcare logistics — daycare, activities, playdates

Mostly me Shared evenly Mostly my partner Doesn't apply to us

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